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Sunday, August 02, 2009

New Beginnings

It’s tough to believe it’s been two months and more since I last posted. In these two months, I shifted from Delhi to Bangalore – within the same company, but a larger and more onerous role in the HQ. Much of my life so far has been nomadic…I don’t have any one city I can confidently call home because my dad was a banker and we used to keep shifting cities every 2-3 years when we were kids and right through college. So I’m not prone to getting nostalgic and weepy about any city.

That said, I definitely miss Delhi – I lived there 5 full years. I miss Khan Market. I miss GK1 and Kailash Colony Market and most of all Lajpat Nagar’s central market. I miss the drives to Gurgaon and to Noida. Somehow Lajpat Nagar will always strike a chord…I never lived there, but I learnt my first guitar chords there at my guitar tutor’s place. I also learned to drive a car there when I took a 7 day refresher course – my driver made a beeline for Lajpat Nagar since the roads were narrow and always packed, and they offered the best learning. As time goes, I know I won’t miss it all that much. It will instead become a memory of the past, with each location in Delhi cherished for the time I spent there. Amongst all the cities I’ve lived in, counting Abu Dhabi in, I’d rate Delhi the best.

My new role is very different from the one I was handling in Delhi. I will have absolutely no travel now, within or outside India. The hours these guys put in here are unbelievable – most Saturdays and Sundays are spent at work, and technology has gotten even smarter. Even the office instant messenger is always wired on so I’m always just a ping away. I definitely don’t like this role – I’ve taken it with the clear intention of learning a few skills (three, to be precise) which I don’t have and I want to learn and I’ll hopefully have that done within 4 quarters. I don’t suppose I’d want to endure 7 day working weeks for longer than one year. I’m not cribbing – the move was by choice. I elected for this. And I’m counting the learning and the days. I plan to take stock every week and the last stock take will hopefully be week number 52.

I’m staying at a lovely apartment. It’s very spacious and has a large swimming pool and one of the best gym’s I’ve seen. I use the gym at least twice a week (Sat and Sun) and try to squeeze in a third day during the week if I wake up early. There are two balconies in my flat. One of them opens out of my bedroom. The view is of a small landscaped garden, and then the perimeter of the apartment complex. I have two bright red chairs in my balcony (both without arm rests) specifically to sit and strum my guitar. I guess the residents in all 12 floors of my block have heard me play – because I play at the dead of the night. Even if I return home at 1 AM, I play for 20 minutes and then crash to sleep. I don’t play all that well yet, but it sounds regular and feels indescribably good.

I will post more regularly now onwards. I’ve missed you guys – Scribble, … and Mukta.

6 comments:

... said...

Aries we've missed you too. You've got to be more regular!!

And the job sounds really killing, but i love your approach towards it. I love how you take things so positively :) Keep it going!!

And yes no place can beat Delhi but atleast you have the '24x7 good Bangalore weather'. And also I hear you goto South-India and automatically feel 10 times sexier!! Is that true?

Aries said...

...Yes, the weather is really good. When I came here from Delhi the difference was so stark, from 40 plus temperatures there to rain and 21 degrees here. On the question of feeling 10 times sexier, I must admit I've never felt sexy anywhere. Changing places doesn't change that.

You know, the question sets me thinking: I would be totally in my elements giving you incisive analysis on EBITDA (earnings before interest, tax, depreciation and amortization) of companies., but cant answer such questions...completely different focus in life, I suppose.

... said...

How you feel about yourself is very relative. It depends on where and who you're with. ALWAYS!

Aries said...

By the way, one of the reason where Bangalore fails miserably compared to Delhi is Subway. There are hardly any subway outlets here - you can count them on your fingers. In Delhi they were all over the place. A sub is my idea of dinner most days :-(

Anonymous said...

hey we missed you! i just got back from my trip and left a comment on ...'s post on ur whereabouts.Good to know you have settled well, but the work sounds challenging! now that i am off work, i feel a lil lame actually, must get back as soon as i am back in dubai.i just got back from my trips and now in delhi and infact in lajpat nagar.. did i ever mention that i always lived in lajpat till i got married and moved to west delhi which i loathe.
anyway, all i can think of right now is the heat.delhi's burning. dubai is definitely hotter but one doesnt get to feel it all that much. bangalore must be good weather.
keep us posted!

Aries said...

Hey Scribble...good to see you're back! Responded on ...'s blog too. Didn't know you lived in Lajpat. I know exactly how it could feel to move from the city centre to the fringes. That's happening to me now. I stay really close to my workplace - which is, as you would guess, in the fringes. So different from Delhi where I lived in GK1 for 4 out of 5 years. M Block market was a 2 minute walk away!